I just realized that I stopped writing paragraphs to people. Like, it used to be a love language to express how much someone means to me. But now, if I type a lot, it’s gotta be at least broken up after each half a sentence, and even still I would rather voice message AT LEAST or talk to them on the phone about it or, best choice, face to face. I realized today that I stopped doing that after I received a literal 7 page document from my ex-fianceé-ex-boyfriend around the time we broke up, and I have been TRAUMATIZED yall, that is NOT the way to deal. If you can, try to talk face to face. Communication is only 7% words– the rest is tone, gesture, energy, etc.

I need the other 93% cause then words start lookin blurry and my eyes squint and my forehead scrunches up and my lips purse up like “nope, no we not doing this again”. So yeah. I stopped doing that lol. OUT WITH THE OLD MIRA, IN WITH THE NEW? Maybe my new thing is writing in ALL CAPS jk that is horrifying that’s not the energy I’m going for AIGHT WE OUT